I Can Help You Thrive in Your Private and Work Life by Getting In Tune with YourSelf!
A personal perspective - Right now this is the life you have, make it the best!
A world perspective - The world needs more conscious leaders. Are you one of them?
The world is undergoing substantial changes: climate changes, a flood of refugees and migrants, painfully brutal work markets, markets and organisations of all kinds coping to restructure and to survive. This again causes increasing health issues for many. Some causes may be found in unsustainable consumption patterns, country regimes, suboptimal collaboration, and organisations lost as to which way to choose now.
None of your business? I think it is. I think it is the business of every human being, as well as global organisations like the UN and WEF, governments and other public offices, NGOs and private companies of all sizes. It is everyone’s business. Somewhere along the road a wrong path or wrong decisions were chosen, now we should know better and need to collaborate to find a better path forward, which doesn’t jeopardise our livelihood.
I have sensed something coming since before 2000, and endured negative repercussions in my former work over many years, companies and client industries. We all have mental defense mechanisms and coping strategies guiding our beliefs and actions, we could remain comfortably numb.
Or we can act responsibly – world organisations and world leaders have already called us to action: All hands on deck! To gain momentum we need to rally forces and ensure we have the best leaders at all levels and areas!
I certainly do not have all the answers. I can however contribute by helping leaders as yourself evolve to be more conscious and effective to ensure a sustainable future for yourself, your organisation and your environment.
The short version
I’m an experienced multicultural leadership consultant with a unique combination of Psychology, Creative Communication, Business, and Engineering Competencies.
MSc, MMngt and Art Therapist educations, updated with fresh know-how from leading institutions.
Long international experience with lead roles in the crossing between People, Strategy, Business Development, Organisation and Technology in internationally oriented companies.
30 years working experience from Process Industry, Banking/Finance, Automotive, Manufacturing, IT and Defence Industry as well as from Political and Voluntary Organisations.
The longer version
Born in Oslo a Norwegian Lutheran, I grew up in Belgium, in a mixture of international expatriate upper middle class, Flemish rural and French-speaking catholic convent schools communities. My family also accompanied my father on is yearly business travels to Turkey. I spent 13 years at all-girls humaniora schools followed by nearly-all-boys engineering studies in the Norwegian institute of Technology. My carefree student life was filled with music- and speech-technology, bridge playing and political activism. My career took me to Turkey, Germany, USA and Belgium before we ended back in Norway. For 21 years I worked in large IT companies providing global customers with all kind of business supporting IT systems, mainly international ones. My various consultant and leader roles encompassed the whole system cycle with the red thread being development of systems, people and organisations to support the systems and our customers.
Interesting – a lot of fun - many good results - Life was quite good.
The turning point came upon me as an earthquake, with its presages and aftershocks. Around me, people’s seemingly successful facades started to crumble and fall apart. The market was slowly but drastically changing. Power games, intrigues and rather unhealthy defense mechanisms made their impact on organisations, on other people and on me.
My cry out was basically about ‘frustration, not being heard, lack of space, feeling confined by other’s fears, suffocating monotony and meaninglessness’. At ground zero my world fell completely apart, not a dream remained and hope was extremely hard to find, everything turned black. Life was black and bloody hell.
So, what do You do when the light is turned off? Continue like before or do some changes? Take responsibility or leave it to others? How do You build up a life from ruins? Where do You turn?
My experience is that it takes trust, time, patience, perseverance, at least one good supporter, and relevant knowledge. Life is slow.
The path I decided to follow is one of a meaningful happy life, using my broad experience and competencies to contribute to lift others and to leave a legacy. I see my role as that of a serving leader, sparring partner or supporter. I believe in the future, that we together are more than the sum of each individual, and that we together can accomplish something good. Life has a direction.
I spent several years:
- Clarifying my values and purpose, taking a more grateful and humble stance towards our planet and its cohabitants
- Digging into the psychology of our common human realms, starting with myself and aiming in as far as possible to understand others: What drives our actions and attitudes? How can we gain some control over the submerged parts of the iceberg of our beings? How can we reach our goals in a more agreeable way for all?
- Digging into renown scientific research and other experiences to build up the most powerful leadership tool case
- Looking for ways to help leaders becoming more conscious and more effective in their actions and collaboration
- Started building new relations with reflected, kind and energizing people
A result of this work is my Leadership Body of Knowledge Framework, the basis of all my services.
In collaboration with great people, I am now running a leadership development program, developing its online counterpart, participating in and leading boards, mentoring entrepreneurs and students, participating in the development of knowledge centers. I have also returned to political activities and responsibilities. And played around with some IT systems! This work is sustainable and profitable for my own life and business as well. I’m basically using my own medicine for myself, my company and to support those people willing to think bigger for themselves and for their organisations. Life is good and full of hope.
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